I had a booty call Monday night, and another one tomorrow. Those count as good things, right?
I 100% know where you're coming from on the "no matter what you do" scenario. Sometimes, you just have to wait things out. Sometimes, when it's something you really really love, it's a wake up call, and you find it's better to just walk away and never look back, all the while discovering you're the better for it. and sometimes, doing everything you can turns into doing everything you can, and doing everything you thought you couldn't, too. Remember what your parents were told on their wedding: sometimes a relationship is 50/50, sometimes it's 20/80, and sometimes, it's 115/-15. Maybe it's time to go 115%?
The best advice I have ever been given is, "Don't make an ultimatums unless you're willing to give something up." Maybe it's time you start making ultimatums, cause lord knows, Lia, you're ready to give something up.
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I 100% know where you're coming from on the "no matter what you do" scenario. Sometimes, you just have to wait things out. Sometimes, when it's something you really really love, it's a wake up call, and you find it's better to just walk away and never look back, all the while discovering you're the better for it. and sometimes, doing everything you can turns into doing everything you can, and doing everything you thought you couldn't, too. Remember what your parents were told on their wedding: sometimes a relationship is 50/50, sometimes it's 20/80, and sometimes, it's 115/-15. Maybe it's time to go 115%?
The best advice I have ever been given is, "Don't make an ultimatums unless you're willing to give something up." Maybe it's time you start making ultimatums, cause lord knows, Lia, you're ready to give something up.